So I took the quiz at perex.com , that karnil recommended. Some things were on, and others were off. I'm interested in other people's opinions of the results though. So, do you think these items (in the poll) accurately describe me? When you asked me to listen, I do. I may not always agree with what you're saying, but I'm always going to try to let you say it. It's not because I owe you, it's because I want to. I want you to know I support you. I want you to know I care, and the best way I know to show you that I care is to listen when you have something to say. Don't worry that what you're saying is too petty, too stupid, too groundless, too whatever other adjectives you can come up with to devalue that very thing that I consider the most important thing in the world....I know you're waiting with baited breath to hear what the most valuable thing, bar none, no exceptions, is to me. I won't keep you in suspence any longer, it's you. You matter. You're important. Your views. Your thoughts. Your needs. They matter. Please stop listening to the voices in your head that lie to you and tell you that you have no right to feel that way. You can work to change those feelings if they don't accurately reflect the way you want to feel, but you shouldn't pretend they don't exist, and you should never think that I don't care or that I'm not interested. Even if I don't always seem to be processing on all 4 cylinders. I know, bold words, ones I hope I can live up to. I know it's not my meeting, and not my place to complain, but STAY ON TOPIC! ON TOPIC! There is a topic, and you should let it guide you! Be the topic. Feel the topic. After 3 days straight of FBSOP , the last thing I need is a poorly running meeting from people who know better. On the other hand, look at all this great data we have on a problem we won't have to deal with for at least six months! * Yippee!! * assuming we manage to iron out the problems that were in scope for the meeting and manage to roll that out.